You did such a great job with this article, thank you for this! I wish all men would read it.

I'm sure there's a difference in libido between men and women as a whole - but not to the degree that some men think it is. I think the major problem is that a lot of men don't think about how to turn women on. They don't get it, and sometimes, they don't really care. They just want *their* needs met.

When you look at sexual content that is successful with women, it has a lot of elements that many men tend to ignore. Including things as simple as foreplay/the "build up." Playing with sexual tension is something women respond REALLY well to. Men who immediately come at you with "hey wanna suck my ding dong" is not.